Is there anything Delight Deres than to know a person with whom you can speak like themselves?
Could you endure the greatest happiness and deepest misery, would have no one to take part in it? Friendship is above all sympathy and compassion!
Marcus Tullius Cicero
friendship
crave an early age we are, after a friendship. We have an intuitive sense of who might be the right thing. We can then no opportunity to move towards him. We invite him for a birthday, all suggesting common games, and all of a sudden, two young people are inseparable. And if the fate they separated, by removal or the like, they grow together and more intense. They say all the details, especially if you go in the years of puberty, has not the slightest shame for each other. It gathers information on the progress without any ulterior motive by presenting the currently growing his little pubic hair. However, we still childish enough and gets involved in a small contest in which you want to know absolutely who can pee the farthest. But when the time comes when the working life, it can happen that the friends be torn apart. Nevertheless, it changes nothing because if the opportunity arises that you can be together again with each other, all as the day
is a very critical test for the friendship, love. Since there are many different reasons, the girlfriend is jealous of their close friendship, especially when the friend does not like. It will feel then, she shows him the cold shoulder and tries to influence their friends in turn, give up the friendship. She remembers well that it exchanges with her friend all the intimacies and fears, therefore, that this friend is a strong argument with her boyfriend over her and her friend influenced in any way against them or making them ill. These are critical times for a friendship. But it also goes the other way, the otherwise loyal friend suddenly developed the maxim: towards a friend, a friend here, but when it comes to love, there is no consideration. Still good friends try to clarify: "To once and for all is clear between us, my girlfriend is off limits to you."
And in the end proves a good friendship that she is indestructible.
If you have lost any blows his childhood friend, it is not as adult as easy to build a new friendship. Over time, we all have some idiosyncratic features developed a more difficult adjustment capability. But if we are able to back off here and there, it is quite possible to live as an adult, a new friendship.
With friendship, it is often as in love. There are love affairs that begin with the intensity of a volcanic eruption. Since two successive meetings, which merge into each other with unbridled energy. This is maybe 2, 3 days so, then he or she discovers that the partner is gone, and the interesting thing is the knowledge we are not disappointed, suddenly you wonder what we have just made me all the time, what We have actually spoken?
My God, it is fixed, except the first name you know nothing of each other. If you at some point this person meets again, you are not interested to get in touch again. On the contrary, one wonders: For God's sake, with whom I once slept?
comparison, there are friendships, in which two meet, which are fantastic. With friends in the pub. And then there is someone to whom one of toasts and responds with clever observations and one back responds, noting we have a little talk in more detail, it is getting closer, talking about God and the world, finally a man of whom we understand is. We have gained a friend and at the end of In the evening we passed each other warmly, hugs with pats on the other says. "Man, nice to have met you, we should definitely do something together we thought, sure you can leave a !".... I'll call you. And he cries?
A friendship that made the wine affects how the wine one night.
Fiedrich of Logau
And then one day you meet a person, perhaps at a party in which one expects, least of all so that it could become a friendship. And by the way you mentioned that you should not be at this party, because a lot of work waiting at home, the landlord demands that the apartment is being renovated! It is a very brief conversation that you have with this man and yet it happens that on the next day at the door, which would naturally ask, what can I do because I have my lab coat it. And that is peculiar turn, one is not surprised him one presses the brush in his hand, amazed at his skill, ask for his career, and notes that he is an intelligent man with well-founded opinions. After working together to drink a coffee, he cleans up the dishes, anything for granted. It provides personal questions, he is critical of himself, and then in a conversation a long pause occurs, you do not feel that you must tell what. It leaves you without excessive emotion, leaves his phone number with the comment: "Call me necessarily, if it burns!"
From such an unexpected opportunity can develop a friendship that lasts a lifetime. Such a friend can say without much risk is also the view, as long as you respect his personality.
You come in friendship, not far if you are not ready to forgive small mistakes.
Jean de La Bruyere
This friendship is over distances and times, it is unzerstöbar. But we must be clear, it is a rarity. And when you meet once in such a friendship, they care, like a rare flower.
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