For those who are determined to grow old or the statistics belie do some indication of what they may be adjusted if necessary. It's always good to know what that means to you. I said it may be not. There are a lucky few among the stars who get away without prejudice to the end and get a smile in the coffin.
once I try to compile, what is the most unpleasant on aging.
course it is always the increasingly diminishing performance, or even the disabled are few who are lucky enough to operate well into old age to their physical and mental abilities can be.
Take it easy, if you no longer can the 10km run in one piece. There are so many little things which is annoying as hearing loss, which leads with time to that without having an increased awareness, more and more isolated. It avoids companies where all talk over each other, one does not understand what the partners and uses various tricks at the beginning or by simply nods and acts as if you understand everything. Man avoids possible a concrete answer when a question was asked jerks his shoulders, but eventually has to give you a commitment and it is sometimes uncomfortable. It is a wrong answer, if not a nonsensical answer and when you've done this several times, you always feel the need to go to do not to such problems or situations.
Surely you could call in already come very far, if one with an intelligent
"aha" response and simply leave it to stand in the air. But as I said, you meet are not always on target.
Now say you will, of course, and very often hear the advice as of young people, because there are these wonderful hearing aids, of course, there you have it and they admit in many cases are a great help, in many cases, but by far not in all. They are still not perfect what concerns for example the phone and hear the latest, remember when we set ourselves such a hearing, we wonder how well the system of our ears and our understanding has worked.
with healthy ears, we are quite able to understand in a large gathering of people, if we turn directly to our partner what he says, because our Höhrsystem develops a strong directionality and in cooperation with our brain, the disturbing noise can be filtered out. But that does not make the hearing aids, it is very loud, so they fail the loud noises of the environment to filter off (the clatter of dishes). What's more, that in my view, but the principle is somewhat questionable. First we are told, we get a hearing impairment because we listen to loud, then they recommend us the hearing aids and slams us in the inner tube, the noise of the outside world and we spoke with increased noise on the eardrum.
Plotting such a device all day, or two or three days, and then takes it out, you get the feeling that one is deaf.
conclusion, these devices may be in the first transitional period when decline in hearing sensitivity in my opinion, a help, but are enjoying after with care. I did without this hearing at the end and could even find that having the brain in terms of the acoustic detection of language ability at reduced frequency response, to develop a higher recognition accuracy.
The next stage is the great interest of the severely hearing, one calls to lead a quiet room. But this need is often one-sided, because the person is usually better on it and loves the company and is actually not the man to talk. Those who are willing to talk, chatterboxes very often, sometimes go to a very nice on my nerves. So you avoid these types and have even more isolated.
As I just mentioned the tendency to isolation, I would be remiss at this point that one in time as a hobby growing steadily, that is well suited to be so old. There are too many hobbies, as a principle that one can give a recommendation, what hobby you should be concentrating on. But it is uncontested that hobbies that you can operate completely independently, which are most appropriate.
Then comes the problem that usually runs parallel to the poor hearing, one no longer sees as good as before, the reading is difficult, but that can be often very good clean with a pair of glasses. Finally, if this is a cataract, you may leave to use a new lens, which offers significant successes.
Now we come to the very unpleasant problem of declining memory. Because the retention decreases, then can then also the ambition to keep the experienced or newly learned. It filters out rigorously. With everything you hear and learn, is filtered to almost unconsciously, according to the system, it is important to me or not that information is always more strictly. All that is irrelevant is omitted. Then one begins, perhaps to the Write down one or the other collects it somewhere on scraps of paper, of which one has after so many that she is too lazy to scroll through all of a certain lost look for information. There are some taxonomists the topic better control and the thing under control, but just for those who previously had to actually write anything and everything could keep the matter is very serious. They unconsciously believe still that they retain important information. If it matters, they note that this information in their memory but evaporated. All you have to keep them, I know exactly what I wanted to remember this, but then that is all. Particularly uncomfortable is that the youthful environment, in its arrogance, often little understanding of the weaknesses that age brings with it and that kind of forgetfulness, to write an emerging stupidity. Little silly, playful taunts will not make things any easier. Just as it is unpleasant but often also to face the older person with a given, understanding fussiness, which assumes a high level of immaturity and senility.
Most believed the older person does not notice, he is often become too tolerant, than that he make a statement. Only the more aggressive types respond to such treatment with uncontrolled Pugnacity.
A sad reason for the isolation of older people is the fact that those who survive the statistical age, experience, the people die in their environment, their friends and relatives with whom they grew up with almost the same age, in front of them. A lot of good friends go, which reinforces the isolation, especially if he or she have lost even more prematurely the partner.
Many of the suffering of my age can still call but ultimately harmless, given that we can attack at the age far more dangerous diseases, diseases threaten our existence. Not to be underestimated is the men often infested slope to depression. You feel useless, and see no prospects for their age.
in straight age, it is particularly important to submit to a regular medical check. We too must learn to pay attention to the signals our body and small
"ailments" pay attention, they can be the sign of a disaster.
How to cope with all these shortcomings, finally, is a question of personality. The A to react with constant complaints and whining, do the younger and certainly did not hear the others are with what is with the consent of the situation and try to make the most of it. And that is quite possible. It is particularly important that care in such a situation, few contacts and connections that exist to the outside world, are. If one puts his hands in his lap, waiting for the others to come on, you've already lost.
If now follows from the written, age is nothing but a pain, then you are mistaken. It is quite possible to experience the aging positively, if we accept things as they are.
If we take the car in an unknown environment, it helps us a map, a plan that shows us the right path. On the way we are prepared and know in advance what to expect. And so this small contribution to Understanding as to a map on the way aging.
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